Relationship Woes?

Good relationships aren't difficult -- bad relationships are! In a business environment, poor relationships are also expensive. An Adecco Staffing survey of 1,000 workers reports that 49 percent of employees say yes, their relationship with their boss directly affects their productivity.

Yeah, it's that important.

Many managers don't really understand what motivates and matters to their employees. We sometimes assume, or think we know, but we don't. Let's look at another study, this time ranking the factors that most influence employee performance. In this study, not only were employees polled, but managers were also asked to predict what those employees' rankings would be. Were the managers right? Take a look.

What Managers Expected Employees to Say

1. High wages
2. Job security
3. Promotion within the company
4. Good working conditions
5. Interesting work

What Employees Really Say Influences Them

1. Full appreciation of work done
2. Feeling of being in on things
3. Help on personal problems
4. Job security
5. High wages

Feeling appreciated and clued-in ranks higher than wages largely because to be appreciated and well-informed prepares us to make outstanding contributions, meet critical goals, and make smart decisions that will result in career growth.

Think of the stereotypical editorial assistant, fetching coffee and doing front-line work -- the pay's not high, the prestige isn't high, and he hasn't chosen that environment to learn different blends of coffee beans. He's learning the business, making a contribution to the big picture, and working toward a fulfilling career.

Make time for important conversations...

Do you have to know the names of your direct reports' pets? Of course not, but knowing your employees' life and career goals helps you leverage what you and your employees have to offer one another into a healthy, productive relationship. A global consumer response survey of 1,625 workers gave some insight into welcome conversation. What aspect is most important when employers communicate with workers?

• Giving insights on how to be more effective (52 percent)
• Showing how to fit into the company's vision (47 percent)
• Explaining the company's vision (45 percent)
• Engaging on a personal level (41 percent)

Build those relationships. To your direct reports, you are the company. The company's strategic goals and how it all fits together comes from you. If you can't sum up those strategic goals, go to your boss, who may go to her boss... It's a conversation that may have unexpected benefits!

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